Sealed with a kiss!

Sealed with a kiss!
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Showing posts with label The Oaks at Salem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Oaks at Salem. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 29, 2019

Ushma and Josh's Interfaith Wedding at The Oaks at Salem!

Ushma's heritage is the Hindu faith and Josh's is Christian. They wanted two separate ceremonies but back to back. I've done this many times and so we got to work on the Christian Ceremony which was to follow the Hindu ceremony which was conducted by a Hindu priest.
Their wedding was June 15th, 2019. It was a bright, sunny and rather hot day. 
They chose the beautiful venue of The Oaks at Salem in Apex. This is a view of the ceremony site across the lake from the reception area.
When I arrived the Hindu ceremony had been going on for about 40 minutes. It is not uncommon for the guests to move around, get refreshments (they had an ice cream cart), and chat with each other. On this particular day folks were seeking the shade of the big unbrellas!
The Hindu ceremony was 1 hour and 45 minutes. Then we shifted to the Christian ceremony and the guests sat down as I began with a warm welcome to all. (The bride and groom were very warm in their colorful Hindu wedding clothing and had been standing a lot, so before I began, I asked them if they would like to sit down until we got to the vows. I got a resounding yes!)
Then we paid sweet tribute to their parents. 
A reading of First Corinthians followed. 
I love telling the story of how my couples met and fell in love and their journey from that day to their wedding day. Ushma and Josh have a good story having met at work in 2014.  Slowly their friendship blossomed into love. Then I shared with each of them and our guests what they told me in secret they love about each other and what they are looking forward to in marriage.
(photo courtesy of their professional photographer Erin Costa. Thanks, Erin!)
Since they had made their vows during the Hindu ceremony, we skipped to the exchange of rings. I asked Aaron, Josh's brother and best man, for the rings and blessed them.
Josh placed the ring on Ushma's finger as he said the words after me to her. 
Then Ushma encircled Josh's finger with his ring and said the ring vows. 
(Photo by Erin Costa)
A closing blessing for the couple.
I placed my hand on their joined hands and made the pronouncement of marriage and invited them to share their first married kiss!
Woo hoo! The deed is done and they are finally married! Everyone cheered. 
I introduced them to their guests and invited the guests to go around the lake and enjoy the refreshments and the shade! I know Ushma and Josh were looking forward to getting out of the sun and changing in to cooler clothing!
After the guests left, our couple headed back the other direction to change clothes for photographs. 
Josh and Ushma! Fantastic wedding! You made it happen!  Thank you for choosing me to join you in marriage! I wish you the best always!

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING FOR ALLIE AND BEN AT THE OAKS AT SALEM!

Allie and Ben met when they were freshmen in high school 14 years ago. They are each other's first love and have shared all the experiences of growing up together, graduating high school and college together and now have tied the knot of marriage together. Their wedding was a beautiful day at The Oaks at Salem--October 27th 2017.
They met with me last January and began putting together all the details of their wedding day. 
Nothing But Bundt Cakes provide the pretty and tasty cakes. 
The reception area under the tent on the terrace was all set up and the guests were mingling before being invited to walk to the other side of the lake for the ceremony.
The beautiful wedding garden area.
David, Allie's father, needed his boutonniere secured and I was happy to make that happen. 
Then two of the grandmothers needed a little help with their corsages.
Joslin, on the right, is our venue director and she cues us when to begin the long walk around the lake. 
The grandparents went first, then I followed and made the "unplugged announcement" to the guests to put away their devices and truly be with Allie and Ben during the ceremony.
Our DJ and Videographer is Damien Maas. Always a pleasure to work with him. 
The two videographers with tripods and our photographer, Krista with Six Foot Photography are ready to capture the procession of parents and wedding party and finally Allie and her dad..
Ben escorts his mother, Kathy, in followed by his dad, Steve.
Unfortunately, the sun was right in our faces at 5:00 that day!
Here come the bridesmaids and groomsmen! 
Finally the children and the last bridesmaid made their way to the ceremony. 
Our little ring bearer decided it was time to sit down and our flower girl was in awe of all the guests watching them.
The children were handed off to grandparents at the front and then we were ready for the bride to enter.
And so Allie and her father make the final stretch where he answers my question and places Allie's hand into Ben's. Then he is seated along with the guests.
Lauren, our maid of honor, reaches around to retrieve hers and Allie's bouquets after fluffing the bride's train. 
And the ceremony begins with a welcome to all and a prayer. 
Then we remembered those no longer with us.
At that point I stepped out front and for a surprise tribute to their parents. Always a sweet and special moment in the ceremony.
Telling the story of how they met and fell in love, all their adventures and Ben's surprise proposal. Such fun and laughter!
Then it was time for them to hear what their partner told me in confidence about why they love each other, want to marry each other, and what they are looking forward to in marriage.
Meanwhile our little ring bearer had to get up and move around. As long as he had his pacifier and his grandparents and great-grandparents keeping an eye on him he was just fine!
And now it is time for Allie and Ben to make their promises of marriage to each other which were printed in my book facing them.
Ben reads his vows to Allie first. 
Then Allie reads hers to Ben.
To seal the vows they exchange rings. Ben goes first and puts the ring on Allie's finger while saying a few words after me.
Then Allie places the ring on Ben's finger while saying the same words to him.
After a closing blessing, I placed my hand on theirs, made the pronouncement of marriage and invited them to share their first kiss as a married couple.
Yay! 
They turned and faced their guests, the maid of honor returned the bouquet to the bride, and I presented them to their guests.
Meanwhile Damien cranks up the drone which will fly overhead and get a video of the whole scene.
The guests were asked to remain in their seats but to stand and turn around for the video with the bride and groom positioned up front. Great shot! Can't wait to see the video!
Ben and Allie! Great wedding! I hope it fulfilled all your dreams of your big day. I loved your wedding ceremony and I think your guests did too. I am honored to have been a part of your big day and to have joined you in marriage. I wish you the best always!