Sealed with a kiss!

Sealed with a kiss!
Laura & Chris' Wedding at JCRaulston Arboretum
Showing posts with label The Flower Cupboard. Show all posts
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Tuesday, November 7, 2017

A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING FOR ALLIE AND BEN AT THE OAKS AT SALEM!

Allie and Ben met when they were freshmen in high school 14 years ago. They are each other's first love and have shared all the experiences of growing up together, graduating high school and college together and now have tied the knot of marriage together. Their wedding was a beautiful day at The Oaks at Salem--October 27th 2017.
They met with me last January and began putting together all the details of their wedding day. 
Nothing But Bundt Cakes provide the pretty and tasty cakes. 
The reception area under the tent on the terrace was all set up and the guests were mingling before being invited to walk to the other side of the lake for the ceremony.
The beautiful wedding garden area.
David, Allie's father, needed his boutonniere secured and I was happy to make that happen. 
Then two of the grandmothers needed a little help with their corsages.
Joslin, on the right, is our venue director and she cues us when to begin the long walk around the lake. 
The grandparents went first, then I followed and made the "unplugged announcement" to the guests to put away their devices and truly be with Allie and Ben during the ceremony.
Our DJ and Videographer is Damien Maas. Always a pleasure to work with him. 
The two videographers with tripods and our photographer, Krista with Six Foot Photography are ready to capture the procession of parents and wedding party and finally Allie and her dad..
Ben escorts his mother, Kathy, in followed by his dad, Steve.
Unfortunately, the sun was right in our faces at 5:00 that day!
Here come the bridesmaids and groomsmen! 
Finally the children and the last bridesmaid made their way to the ceremony. 
Our little ring bearer decided it was time to sit down and our flower girl was in awe of all the guests watching them.
The children were handed off to grandparents at the front and then we were ready for the bride to enter.
And so Allie and her father make the final stretch where he answers my question and places Allie's hand into Ben's. Then he is seated along with the guests.
Lauren, our maid of honor, reaches around to retrieve hers and Allie's bouquets after fluffing the bride's train. 
And the ceremony begins with a welcome to all and a prayer. 
Then we remembered those no longer with us.
At that point I stepped out front and for a surprise tribute to their parents. Always a sweet and special moment in the ceremony.
Telling the story of how they met and fell in love, all their adventures and Ben's surprise proposal. Such fun and laughter!
Then it was time for them to hear what their partner told me in confidence about why they love each other, want to marry each other, and what they are looking forward to in marriage.
Meanwhile our little ring bearer had to get up and move around. As long as he had his pacifier and his grandparents and great-grandparents keeping an eye on him he was just fine!
And now it is time for Allie and Ben to make their promises of marriage to each other which were printed in my book facing them.
Ben reads his vows to Allie first. 
Then Allie reads hers to Ben.
To seal the vows they exchange rings. Ben goes first and puts the ring on Allie's finger while saying a few words after me.
Then Allie places the ring on Ben's finger while saying the same words to him.
After a closing blessing, I placed my hand on theirs, made the pronouncement of marriage and invited them to share their first kiss as a married couple.
Yay! 
They turned and faced their guests, the maid of honor returned the bouquet to the bride, and I presented them to their guests.
Meanwhile Damien cranks up the drone which will fly overhead and get a video of the whole scene.
The guests were asked to remain in their seats but to stand and turn around for the video with the bride and groom positioned up front. Great shot! Can't wait to see the video!
Ben and Allie! Great wedding! I hope it fulfilled all your dreams of your big day. I loved your wedding ceremony and I think your guests did too. I am honored to have been a part of your big day and to have joined you in marriage. I wish you the best always!

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Dean Plantation Hosts Fabulous Wedding of Megan and Brad!

Megan and Brad had a wonderful wedding. Here is what Megan wrote to me after the wedding: "I cannot begin to say thank you for EVERYTHING you did for us to make our day so special :)  My goal was to have a very personalized wedding ceremony and my DREAM came true! :)  Everyone the entire night and still yesterday were talking about how wonderful the ceremony was and how amazing you were!  I am so grateful to have connected with you and thank you for taking the time to make the ceremony so personal :)  One mom told me that she had 3 three daughters get married and she didn't cry near as much at their weddings as she did ours - she was so touched!" And, amazingly enough the parents of three daughters, Lisa and Mark, for all three of whom I was the officiant, were there, although I know they cried at their daughters' weddings so this mom could not possibly be Lisa.
Megan and Brad's wedding was October 26, 2013 at Dean Plantation in Zebulon. This was my first wedding at this fairly new and not often discovered horse farm where they train horses that compete in the big races. The property is simply gorgeous and so beautifully maintained. Anna Dean, daughter of the owners, manages the weddings and serves as wedding director. She was a lot of fun to work with and knew the ropes!
When Dave and I arrived on the day of the wedding, there was the Meg and Brad sign at the driveway into the farm and the owner was greeting guests and pointing them in the right direction. They had even put bows on the horse statues in the gateway!
The racing track is in the background. 
The reception was held in a building that was constructed to be a horse stable but never occupied by horses but the posts are there for individual stalls if they ever revert to stabling horses there. Everyone was busy getting ready. The Fire Pitt BBQ and Smokehouse in Wake Forest catered. Gorden with Anything Music was our DJ and Jeff and Carolyn of Pauk Photography captured the photos.
A fiddler provided ceremony music but I did not get his name.





































Megan wanted a really different and unique "unity" ceremony and she found one on line where the couple paint a heart on a canvas using different color paint. I was excited to do something new and different and came up with the wording which worked out quite well. There was a bit of wind and there was some difficulty keeping the canvas upright. I think next time, I will borrow my daughter's heavy duty easel with clamps!
It was time to begin and Anna began cueing us down the aisle. Brad and I entered after the parents.
        Anna holding the bridesmaids back until it was time for them to enter and take their places.

Our bridesmaids are in place and now the sweet little flower girl, Maddie, took her time sprinkling fall leaves down the aisle. It is a very long aisle!
                       Then our ring bearer entered, rather reluctantly until he got the hang of it! 
Megan's father, Bob, helps her out of this bright red Chevy Camaro!
And so we begin! Back in November of 2010, Megan and Brad met at a gathering of friends when neither of them thought they were ready for a relationship much less expecting to meet their soulmate. Brad can be a man of few words so he loved Megan's gift of gab although she was afraid she had put him off with her talkativeness! They hugged  each other upon leaving the gathering and that wonderful hug from Brad clenched it for Megan. They messaged through Facebook and went on their first official date in December of 2010 and since then they have been inseparable. Brad proposed on a starry night in December of 2012 and they began planning their wonderful wedding with great enthusiasm. I met them in February and found them to be such a good match and a delightful couple so full of love.
                             They exchanged secret vows and rings then it was time to paint!
           I held the canvas steady while they filled in the outline of the heart with their two colors.

                     Here is the finished painting. They plan to frame it and hang it in their home.
 I pronounce you husband and wife! 
Brad and Megan, congratulations! I know you are enjoying wedded bliss and can pat yourselves on the back for a great wedding. All your diligence and hard work really paid off! I wish you all the happiness in the world!
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