Sealed with a kiss!

Sealed with a kiss!
Laura & Chris' Wedding at JCRaulston Arboretum
Showing posts with label Family Unity Candle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Unity Candle. Show all posts

Thursday, October 22, 2015

Wonderful Interfaith Wedding for Warren and Maria With a Surprise Ending!

Maria and Warren planned to have their beautiful wedding ceremony on October 3, 2015 in the Ann Hill Courtyard of The Carolina Inn. All was going well until Hurricane Joaquin came whirling along the North Carolina coast sending bands of rain and wind into the Triangle. The ground was already super-saturated from two previous rainy weekends so their wedding was forced inside where a portion of the John Hill Ballroom was cordoned off for the ceremony. And, it could not have been prettier!
 This chuppah and all the floral arrangements, bouquets and boutonnieres were done by Tre Bella. 
Maria and Warren's ceremony was custom blended to include both Christian and Jewish elements. Here we have the Unity Candle (Christian) which included their children lighting candles. We had the Cup of Life and Glass Breaking (Jewish) traditions too. All ready for the ceremony.
This is a beautiful Ketubah--a marriage contract that is traditionally signed at a Jewish wedding. 
Inside the other two-thirds of the ballroom, their band was set up. Maria and Warren are fans of big bands and jazz. I did not get the name of the band although we could hear them rehearsing before the ceremony.
This sweet cake was by Whole Foods Bakery in Chapel Hill.
The music for the ceremony was provided by Scott Schillin. He was set up at the back of the ballroom.
The guests started arriving and taking their seats. 
Our beautiful bride, Maria, and her equally beautiful daughter, Elena, were hidden out of sight. Gina, our wonderful wedding director with A Southern Soiree makes sure no one sees them, especially the groom!
Christobal Perez with Azul Photography is getting in position for the processional. 
Our wonderful wedding director, Gina with A Southern Soiree, cued Warren and me and Jacob, Warren's son, to enter.
Elena and Zoe, Warren's daughter, were next to enter. 
Warren, Jacob and I await the entrance of the bridesmaids and the bride!
Both Warren's and Maria's parents are deceased so Maria had her cousin Blase escort her down the aisle.  
A warm welcome to all followed by a prayer based on First Corinthians (one of the Christian elements).
Then the children's blessing which included words from Warren and Maria to each other's children. 
Explanation of the Unity Candle. 
The lighting on the Unity Candle by Warren and Maria.
Elena, Jacob and Zoe lit their candles from the Unity Candle symbolizing family unity.
The Cup of Life ceremony in which Maria and Warren drank of the same Kiddush cup of wine.
Maria and Warren, like many modern couples, were matched up on line. Their love story spans 5 years because neither were eager to rush things. They each had their own priorities and goals and gradually melded their lives together. Destiny was truly evident in these two finding each other!
They had each told me in private what they love about each other and what they are looking forward to in marriage. Neither had heard what the other told me until this sweet moment in the ceremony.
They make their promises of marriage to each other.
The exchange of rings.
The pronouncement of marriage!
A beautiful kiss! 
"Aha! We did it" moment!
At this point I introduced the couple and whereas they would typically recess out, there was a big surprise in store for the guests!
I gave the signal and the famous a cappella group from UNC, The Clef Hangers, stood and began singing Carolina on My Mind to Maria and Warren.
They continued with Crazy Love for Maria! 
The Clef Hangers exited followed by Maria and Warren, now wife and husband!
Jacob escorted his sisters down the aisle! 
A group shot of all the guests! The rain had stopped! 
Warren and Maria, what a wonderful wedding! I hope it fulfilled all your dreams. I am honored to have joined you in marriage and I wish you the best always!

Our Wonderful Vendors for this wedding:

Venue: The Carolina Inn
Wedding Director: A Southern Soiree
Musician: Scott Schillin
Photographer: Azul Photography
Florist: Tre Bella Flowers

Wedding Cake: WholeFoods in Chapel Hill


Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Nicole and Tim Marry at the Historic Campbell House in Buies Creek.

Tim and Nicole were having some difficulty finding a minister to marry them in Buies Creek on December 13th and called me. I was happy to officiate for them since December is not in the busy wedding season and I had no other weddings scheduled that day . Usually I do not travel quite that far to do weddings but I found out it is actually only about 40 miles away and I do travel to Benson and Louisburg for weddings which is about the same distance. Anyway, they planned a small wedding with family and friends. We made all the arrangements by email and US Mail and Marty and I arrived at the Campbell House about 20 minutes before ceremony start time. I met Tim and then Nicole and her 5 year old son Will and got the marriage license. I noticed that Tim was born and raised in Dalton GA, not far from Cedartown GA where I grew up and later worked at a hospital in Dalton in the 1980s when I lived in Chattanooga.

The wedding started right on time as Nicole's father and Will escorted her down the aisle to Tim. We began with a welcome and thanks to all then an opening prayer. We paid tribute to Nicole's parents who were with us and remembered Tim's parents in Dalton who could not travel to be with us. We recognized Will and how important he is to his mother and Tim. They gave him a handsome family medallion as a memento of the occasion. Nicole and Tim exchanged vows and rings then we had a family unity candle ceremony where the couple and Will lit their own candles from a source candle then together lit a Family Unity Candle. Then I made the happy pronouncement and invited Tim and Nicole to share their first kiss as husband and wife.
It was a fine wedding and I received lots of compliments on the ceremony from the guests. We took some photos then I got the license signed by the two witnesses. Marty and I returned to Raleigh shortly after that to meet my husband, Dave, and all go to dinner and to the Master Chorale Concert together. What a nice day and evening! Congratulations, Tim, Nicole and Will!