Sealed with a kiss!

Sealed with a kiss!
Laura & Chris' Wedding at JCRaulston Arboretum
Showing posts with label Jewish interfaith ceremony. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jewish interfaith ceremony. Show all posts

Saturday, July 14, 2018

Ashley and Justin's Fabulous Wedding At Highgrove!

Ashley and Justin planned a gorgeous wedding all the way from New York City where they live and where they met. They chose the historic Highgrove Estate in Fuquay-Varina for their wedding on June 2nd, 2018. The day was beautiful but on the warm side.
Highgrove is a great place for weddings. They make planning your wedding as easy as possible so it was perfect for Ashley and Justin since they did not live locally.
Flowers on Broad furnishes the florals many times at Highgrove because they are also located in Fuquay-Varina. The portico is beautifully decorated with swags, lanterns and greenery.
The Arioso Strings quartet has been setup in the shade under the overhang of the garden ballroom.They provided heavenly music for the ceremony and cocktail hour. 
In lieu of wedding programs this lovely poster gives all the particulars of the ceremony. 
Back in the manor house, the dining room is set up to receive the gifts and cards from the guests. 
Sweet!
After doing a sound check for the ceremony, Phil with Twenty-One Films videography wires me for sound. We work together on a lot of weddings and I always have a pocket or loop to wear his recording device for the video sound.
The florist has hung mason jars of pretty flowers on shepherds hooks flanking the aisle. 
Justin and Ashley chose to do the Anniversary Box. The night before the wedding they wrote love-letters to each other, sealed without sharing, then placed in this box which holds a bottle of wine to be shared on their first anniversary and the letters opened and read. Then they write another and seal without sharing to be read on each subsequent anniversary. A real legacy of their love!
Pretty hanging lanterns in the portico. 
View of the house in the center, garden ballroom on left, and covered terrace with bar on the right. 
Back inside the house, the guests can enjoy a glass of wine and sweets before being seated for the ceremony. 
Angela Wright and her mother Vickie own Highgrove and have made it a beautiful choice for a wedding in the Triangle. They furnish the wedding director, the catering, the bartending, the venue with a Plan B in case of inclement weather, and parking for all. It is an all in one venue.
The guests are arriving and making their way to the ceremony area. 
Jason Huggins, owner of Stylus DJs adjusts my microphone. He is so conscientious and I really appreciate his professionalism. He will be the music for the reception.
Grabbing a quiet moment to review the ceremony script. 
I entered first to begin the processional.
Justin was escorted in by his parents in the Jewish tradition then they were seated and Justin joined me up front. 
The bride's parents entered then the groomsmen and bridesmaids entered as couples. The two cute ring bearers were next.
Our beautiful bride was escorted in by her father. 
Hooman Bahrani our photographer with Vesic Photography gets a good shot. 
And so we began with a welcome to all the guests who had traveled from near and far. Ashley's family is from the Raleigh area and Justin's family are from New York.
After the prayer and in memoriam section I stepped forward to address their parents--a surprise to them. Usually evokes some sweet tears.
Then I had the great fun of telling the story of how Justin and Ashley met. It was a great story to tell and quite involved but so good that I could not leave anything out.
There were a lot of funny parts of the story 
Ashley blots Justin's face as he has begun to perspire a little!
Justin took over.
And now to reveal to them what the other told me they love about them. A tender moment. 
They read their vows to each other from my book where the words were printed facing them while placing the rings on each other's fingers. Justin goes first.
Now Ashley says her vows and places the ring on Justin's finger. 
My turn to mop Justin's face! 
They place their love-letters in the box with the wine. 
An explanation of the breaking of the glass in the Jewish tradition.
I placed the glass wrapped in a cloth at Justin's feet. 
I pronounced them husband and wife, asked Justin to break the glass and kiss the bride. 
The guests and I shouted Mazeltov! 
They turned and faced their guests and I introduced them to their guests for the first time as a married couple.
And away they go!!
The wedding party recessed. 
Parents of the bride! 
Parents of the groom! 
Justin and Ashley! Congratulations! What a fabulous wedding! I hope your dreams were fulfilled. I loved working with you and making your wedding ceremony unforgettable. Best wishes always!

Thursday, October 22, 2015

Wonderful Interfaith Wedding for Warren and Maria With a Surprise Ending!

Maria and Warren planned to have their beautiful wedding ceremony on October 3, 2015 in the Ann Hill Courtyard of The Carolina Inn. All was going well until Hurricane Joaquin came whirling along the North Carolina coast sending bands of rain and wind into the Triangle. The ground was already super-saturated from two previous rainy weekends so their wedding was forced inside where a portion of the John Hill Ballroom was cordoned off for the ceremony. And, it could not have been prettier!
 This chuppah and all the floral arrangements, bouquets and boutonnieres were done by Tre Bella. 
Maria and Warren's ceremony was custom blended to include both Christian and Jewish elements. Here we have the Unity Candle (Christian) which included their children lighting candles. We had the Cup of Life and Glass Breaking (Jewish) traditions too. All ready for the ceremony.
This is a beautiful Ketubah--a marriage contract that is traditionally signed at a Jewish wedding. 
Inside the other two-thirds of the ballroom, their band was set up. Maria and Warren are fans of big bands and jazz. I did not get the name of the band although we could hear them rehearsing before the ceremony.
This sweet cake was by Whole Foods Bakery in Chapel Hill.
The music for the ceremony was provided by Scott Schillin. He was set up at the back of the ballroom.
The guests started arriving and taking their seats. 
Our beautiful bride, Maria, and her equally beautiful daughter, Elena, were hidden out of sight. Gina, our wonderful wedding director with A Southern Soiree makes sure no one sees them, especially the groom!
Christobal Perez with Azul Photography is getting in position for the processional. 
Our wonderful wedding director, Gina with A Southern Soiree, cued Warren and me and Jacob, Warren's son, to enter.
Elena and Zoe, Warren's daughter, were next to enter. 
Warren, Jacob and I await the entrance of the bridesmaids and the bride!
Both Warren's and Maria's parents are deceased so Maria had her cousin Blase escort her down the aisle.  
A warm welcome to all followed by a prayer based on First Corinthians (one of the Christian elements).
Then the children's blessing which included words from Warren and Maria to each other's children. 
Explanation of the Unity Candle. 
The lighting on the Unity Candle by Warren and Maria.
Elena, Jacob and Zoe lit their candles from the Unity Candle symbolizing family unity.
The Cup of Life ceremony in which Maria and Warren drank of the same Kiddush cup of wine.
Maria and Warren, like many modern couples, were matched up on line. Their love story spans 5 years because neither were eager to rush things. They each had their own priorities and goals and gradually melded their lives together. Destiny was truly evident in these two finding each other!
They had each told me in private what they love about each other and what they are looking forward to in marriage. Neither had heard what the other told me until this sweet moment in the ceremony.
They make their promises of marriage to each other.
The exchange of rings.
The pronouncement of marriage!
A beautiful kiss! 
"Aha! We did it" moment!
At this point I introduced the couple and whereas they would typically recess out, there was a big surprise in store for the guests!
I gave the signal and the famous a cappella group from UNC, The Clef Hangers, stood and began singing Carolina on My Mind to Maria and Warren.
They continued with Crazy Love for Maria! 
The Clef Hangers exited followed by Maria and Warren, now wife and husband!
Jacob escorted his sisters down the aisle! 
A group shot of all the guests! The rain had stopped! 
Warren and Maria, what a wonderful wedding! I hope it fulfilled all your dreams. I am honored to have joined you in marriage and I wish you the best always!

Our Wonderful Vendors for this wedding:

Venue: The Carolina Inn
Wedding Director: A Southern Soiree
Musician: Scott Schillin
Photographer: Azul Photography
Florist: Tre Bella Flowers

Wedding Cake: WholeFoods in Chapel Hill